Do any of these scenarios apply to you?
Now that they have gotten to know you, Everyone agrees that you are a fantastic person, they never knew you were this nice. In the meantime, you have lost several opportunities because they didn’t think you were a cool person. You have no clue what you did to make them think you were not nice. You begin to wonder “what exactly did I do the first time they met me that gave them the wrong impression of me?” The goal is to always make the right First Impression the always. You can’t keep trying to change wrong impressions everywhere you go.
You are the total package of beauty and brains and you are more than ready to step into the next stage of your life but are unable to attract the life partner you desire.
You have your plan for greatness and are already pursuing it…what happens when you reach your goal and your Manners let you down? You have worked so hard to get a promotion. You finally got it and are now in a position to have meetings with top executives and high net worth clients. Recently, you were invited to dinner at an upscale restaurant and you found yourself ill at ease, fidgeting because you had no idea what to do with the place setting. You didn’t know what cutlery to use. You were slyly looking around the table to see what others were doing. A toast was made in honor of your boss and to everyone’s amusement you picked up someone else’s glass to drink from. You were promptly corrected. You felt so embarrassed and you never want that to happen again.
You have spent years building your career and are now worried about your ability to set up a home because after the wedding comes the marriage. The romance wears of real quickly when basic everyday needs are not met. Not being able to keep home is not an option. Running to mummy and daddy is a no no.
You wish to support your husband not only through prayer but socially, to engage his colleagues in conversation and help him fulfill his social obligations by entertaining his guests so he progresses faster in his career. You don’t want to be labelled “Fine for Nothing” or “Trophy Wife” You want to be known as a most gracious and intelligent hostess. You don’t want a situation where in order to avoid being embarrassed, he refuses to take you out to his work functions….you are assigned to be a piece of furniture in the house. God forbid!
You are an excellent Mother yet your kids are not as polished as you would like them to be and you are at a loss to know what to do to help them succeed. You know that that expensive school isn’t doing enough and they need something extra to make them that well rounded human being for them to succeed in life. After all, you don’t want your 40 year old child still living at home.
You are the smartest in the office yet every time there is a meeting with important clients or the opportunity to lead a special project, the boss overlooks you. Why won’t you get the chance to shine? What is it about you that makes them think you are not capable? You can feel the frustration rising…
Others get away with murder in the workplace and yet when you ask for your legitimate rights it’s denied. What makes them so likeable? They aren’t even as hard working as you. Why does the boss like them so much? It’s just not fair!!!
You have rendered a service or supplied a product and you do not get a call back…you know a competitor has taken over that account and they charge more. What do they have that you do not? You know people do business with whom they like and trust. Why don’t they like you enough to come back?
You have prayed over and over again, fasted and visited many Men of God. You are tired of your relatives giving you unsolicited advice. Tired of people telling you, you need to “improve” but no one offering you the “How to” steps to take.
If any of the above applies to you and you agree with me that Talent and Beauty are not enough to give you the edge, then this consultation is for you. If you recognize that you need that “X Factor” that certain “Je Ne Sais Quoi” to help you distinguish yourself from the rest, then Manners Matter can help.
This Session is designed to:
- Identify issues you are dealing with thus far.
- Determine who the ideal you is.
- Challenge yourself to embrace new habits that will work for you all the time.
- Give you practical steps to help with achieving your desired goals so you win every time.
- Give you a proposal for a tailored service just for you that guarantees your continued success.
If you want to be that “Successful” person business and social acquaintances always come back to or have “Successful” relationships with family and friends, then I invite you to book a session today.